{"id":344,"date":"2005-10-30T06:42:00","date_gmt":"2005-10-30T13:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/i-hate-talking-on-the-phone\/"},"modified":"2008-05-10T12:04:33","modified_gmt":"2008-05-10T19:04:33","slug":"i-hate-talking-on-the-phone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/i-hate-talking-on-the-phone\/","title":{"rendered":"I hate talking on the phone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I think the main reason that I don&#8217;t like telephones is that phoning somebody is a very intrusive way to contact them &#8211; you&#8217;re interrupting whatever they are doing to effectively say &#8220;talk to me now &#8211; I am more important than whatever you are doing&#8221;. Similarly, I dislike being phoned in general because it interrupts whatever I&#8217;m doing.<\/p>\n<p>When I do have to phone someone I always try to make sure I have all the information I need in front of me and have answers to any questions they might ask, so as not to waste their time any more than is necessary.<\/p>\n<p>Email is so much better because people can check it when they like and answer when it is convenient for them to do so. I also prefer replying to emails because it gives me a chance to think about what I want to say. I prefer not to do business with companies which will only communicate over the phone, when I get the choice (which doesn&#8217;t seem to be very often).<\/p>\n<p>Another reason is that I sometimes find it difficult to understand what people are saying on the phone, especially if I am unfamiliar with their accent. Not only can you not lip read to give you that bit of extra disambiguation data, but you also don&#8217;t get to see the body language which tells you so much about what a person really means.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I think the main reason that I don&#8217;t like telephones is that phoning somebody is a very intrusive way to contact them &#8211; you&#8217;re interrupting whatever they are doing to effectively say &#8220;talk to me now &#8211; I am more important than whatever you are doing&#8221;. Similarly, I dislike being phoned in general because it [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/344","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=344"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/344\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=344"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=344"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.reenigne.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=344"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}